So currently I’m really busy; I need to propose my dissertation topic in August, and my buddy Scott and I are busy starting up a new Internet company and building a prototype of our software. Add to that sailing two days a week, and the desire to keep posting photos on the photoblog, and you can see that I have a pretty full schedule.
But I’m distracted – or rather I’m dissatisfied, and that’s distracting me. I feel like I’d like to engage with someone romantically, but frankly I don’t know anyone I’m interested in dating. Scott has been taking more proactive steps to meet someone (say, why don’t you blog about that once in a while Scott?), and I’ve been considering taking similar steps myself.
In particular Scott, is on Match.com, and quite frankly I’ve been watching his progress over there. But I’m convinced I wouldn’t do well on Match; you see I’ve been dating interracially for sometime now, and it looks like people mostly keep to their own on Match.
Now don’t get me wrong it’s not that I won’t date a black woman, it’s just that I don’t want to limit myself to dating black women. Personally I’m half-Thai (mom) and half-Haitian (dad), and as a result I’ve never felt the need to date women from any particular race. Superficially, I’m clearly a black man; culturally, I have a lot in common with mainstream white america, and spiritually I’m pretty Thai in my beliefs.
While there are sites that cater to interracial dating: Mixed Race, Interracial Match, Black and White Singles, Salt and Pepper Singles; just to name a few. But, I don’t want to limit myself to only interracial dating.
So I ask you, dear reader, what shall I do? Forego dating for the time being, continue meeting people traditionally, or join an online dating community. Leave me a comment with your opinion, and if anyone would like to suggest a dating site that they think works well, please include a link!